lib: py: remove distutils in favor of setuptools

[pyrox0]

As distutils is removed in python 3.12, and setuptools provides the same interface, it can be switched in place with only minor changes. This allows using the thrift bindings on versions of Python 3.12 or greater, and in python environments without distutils installed(such as NixOS, which does not expose setuptools' internal distutils distribution)

• Did you create an Apache Jira ticket? (Request account here, not required for trivial changes)
• If a ticket exists: Does your pull request title follow the pattern "THRIFT-NNNN: describe my issue"?
• Did you squash your changes to a single commit? (not required, but preferred)
• [ x Did you do your best to avoid breaking changes? If one was needed, did you label the Jira ticket with "Breaking-Change"?
• If your change does not involve any code, include [skip ci] anywhere in the commit message to free up build resources.

[ctubbsii]

This is a small incremental improvement. However, it should also be done with other modernizations, like those described in https://packaging.python.org/en/latest/guides/modernize-setup-py-project/